Husband And Wife

Gentleness and Softness are always excellent. They bring about unity, love and peace. On the contrary,harshness brings about disunity and instability.

For husband and wife to live in harmony, they must admire and be merciful to one another. Further, she must respect him, and he must be kind to her.

Your husband deserves to be respected. Be obedient in good,  polite, keep on smiling, take care of his desire and stomach and avoid suspicion.

Your dearest wife deserves massive kindness. Be kind to her in everything: Feed her; cloth her; educate her; accommodate her; and pardon her.

Your Wife is neither a slave nor a housekeeper. She is your companion that partakes in division of labour with you to establish an ideal family.

Conflict is inevitable in marriage. Kindness, fair hearing, forgiveness, justice and softness bring about stability and harmony in marital life.

Wife is the shepherd of the household. Her responsibility is a huge one. She is an institution that produces all scholars and pious leaders globally are you looking for a faultless wife? A wife that can't offend you at all? If yes, then no one in this world,but rather in Paradise. Be kind please.

As part of kindness, if the wife asks her husband for allowances for breastfeeding her children from him, then he should try to pay her, Evidence of allowances for breastfeeding. Almighty says: Then if they give suck to the children for you, give them their due payment. Q65:6.

The Prophet ص would say, "The best among u is he who is kindest to his wife and I am kindest to my wife". No so-called Feminism can beat this.

As wife, your husband is neither a messenger nor an aide. He deserves your massive respect for his spending etc. Imagine your life without him?

The attitude of "I am always right" by both husband and wife, brings about chaos and pandemonium in marital life. No one of you is infallible, please.

Both husband and wife must be convinced that to err is human. They must be ready to serve as a mirror to one another. Accept when corrected.

Wives naturally, like to be praised for, their adornment, marital relationship and cooking. Always remember to say to her "you are superb and unique".

Satan tries to be a stakeholder in our marital life. If one spouse is ANGRY, the other must not be ANGRY. Otherwise, Satan has defeated both.

Husband and wife should try to be talking to one another with a Smiling Face. It is an act of Ibadah, romantic and could lower stress level. Smile.

Marital life is a source of tranquillity and peace. It is also d best pleasure of this world. Married couple should always try to achieve that.

RIGHTEOUS! Whomever is blessed with a righteous wife, completed half of his religion, so let him fear Almighty with regard to the other half.

Always say to your wife:“If you see me angry, calm me down, and if I see you angry I will calm you down, otherwise we can't live together honourably”.

For a successful marriage, married couple are urged to control their tongues, and avoid foul speaking by using them freely against each other.

Harsh tongue and aggressive tone will not change your spouse- wife or husband. Rather, you should use kind and gentle words, which is act of charity.

Husband and Wife should try to keep their secret, confidential. It must remain within their boundaries. It should not be exposed to outsiders.

The best solution for any marital problem is through ENDURANCE & GENTLENESS. Words & Decisions taken in ANGER & HIGH EMOTIONS are rash & wrong.

Unsolicited and unexpected gift strengthens LOVE & MERCY between married couple.Try to surprise your wife/husband, from time to time with nice gifts.

Married couple should avoid undermining d roles of each other in building the family. The roles of each can't be played by d other effectively.

For married couple, there must be moments of happiness and sadness. For happiness both should be grateful, while for sadness, be patient and pray.